Shelli
17-11-2008, 10:36 AM
Hi everyone
thought you might like an update on our "girls".
Last weekend we had our first experience of the negative side of keeping animals.
The hens free range in the garden at the moment - they are doing a spendid job fertilising the ground and eating all the ground elder around the fruit trees. Last saturday (the 8th Nov) my daughter and I were in the house. I was having a cleaning frenzy upstairs - When I took the vac downstairs to empty the bins there was a loud knock at the front door. I answered and there on the doorstep was a chap from the village who I had not yet met. He looked very sheepish and upset as he told me that one of his dogs had got into our garden and got one of our hens. the dog is a 4 month old springer spaniel - the neighbour didn't know we had chickens in the garden as, even though they live almost opposite us, they dont regularly walk past our house to exercise their dogs - (if he had known he would have put the dog on the lead as they came down the main road). I was in shock as we walked around the back of the house to where the sad little body lay - it was awful - it was my little boy's hen Shelly - the smallest of the 4, neck broken, dead.
it wasn't a great way to meet the neighbour - however he was a very nice man - very genuinely sorry and offered to replace the hen (that's great I said - but we'll need a bigger hen hut - how are you at laying eggs !! - this broke the tension a bit).
I didn't know whether to tell a white lie to the children or give them the truth - I opted for the truth - my little boy wasn't home - he and dad were out so I told daughter 1st - she wanted to see the body and she had a little cry. she was very upset for her brother too. Although her tears were upsetting i was pleased that she showed empathy for how her brother would feel (my daughter has autism and this can be a tricky emotion for her).
I phoned the OH and told him what had happened so that he could begin to explain to our son on the way home. OH called me back with our son's instructions for the funeral service.
Son was very upset and we dug a hole and had a little ceremony - he said goodbye and was very sad for his pet hen.
I dug out a leaflet from the place we bought the hens and my son and OH went to see our neighbour - the neighbour was great with our son and son met the dog and saw that it was just a pup - son left the leaflet with neighbours with details of the type of hen so that they could contact the suppliers.
The next day I was out for the day on a breadmaking course. When I got back in the evening there was much excitement from the children. The neighbour had arrived that afternoon carrying a big box and presented my son with a replacement hen - they had travelled a 40 mile round trip on a Sunday morning to get it for him (what incredibly nice people). - The new hen was MASSIVE compared to the other 3 with a bigger comb and wattles - so son has named her Big Bird!
She has settled in well and after a few days of homing is now out with the others in the garden. My son was highly delighted this weekend as his new hen has given us our first Egg !! - we fried it this morning and all dipped into the yolk - delicious.
we feel very pleased to have had such a positive outcome from a sad situation - and are thankful to our thoughtful and sensitive neighbours who have shown themselves to be lovely people definitely worth getting to know.
Shelli X
thought you might like an update on our "girls".
Last weekend we had our first experience of the negative side of keeping animals.
The hens free range in the garden at the moment - they are doing a spendid job fertilising the ground and eating all the ground elder around the fruit trees. Last saturday (the 8th Nov) my daughter and I were in the house. I was having a cleaning frenzy upstairs - When I took the vac downstairs to empty the bins there was a loud knock at the front door. I answered and there on the doorstep was a chap from the village who I had not yet met. He looked very sheepish and upset as he told me that one of his dogs had got into our garden and got one of our hens. the dog is a 4 month old springer spaniel - the neighbour didn't know we had chickens in the garden as, even though they live almost opposite us, they dont regularly walk past our house to exercise their dogs - (if he had known he would have put the dog on the lead as they came down the main road). I was in shock as we walked around the back of the house to where the sad little body lay - it was awful - it was my little boy's hen Shelly - the smallest of the 4, neck broken, dead.
it wasn't a great way to meet the neighbour - however he was a very nice man - very genuinely sorry and offered to replace the hen (that's great I said - but we'll need a bigger hen hut - how are you at laying eggs !! - this broke the tension a bit).
I didn't know whether to tell a white lie to the children or give them the truth - I opted for the truth - my little boy wasn't home - he and dad were out so I told daughter 1st - she wanted to see the body and she had a little cry. she was very upset for her brother too. Although her tears were upsetting i was pleased that she showed empathy for how her brother would feel (my daughter has autism and this can be a tricky emotion for her).
I phoned the OH and told him what had happened so that he could begin to explain to our son on the way home. OH called me back with our son's instructions for the funeral service.
Son was very upset and we dug a hole and had a little ceremony - he said goodbye and was very sad for his pet hen.
I dug out a leaflet from the place we bought the hens and my son and OH went to see our neighbour - the neighbour was great with our son and son met the dog and saw that it was just a pup - son left the leaflet with neighbours with details of the type of hen so that they could contact the suppliers.
The next day I was out for the day on a breadmaking course. When I got back in the evening there was much excitement from the children. The neighbour had arrived that afternoon carrying a big box and presented my son with a replacement hen - they had travelled a 40 mile round trip on a Sunday morning to get it for him (what incredibly nice people). - The new hen was MASSIVE compared to the other 3 with a bigger comb and wattles - so son has named her Big Bird!
She has settled in well and after a few days of homing is now out with the others in the garden. My son was highly delighted this weekend as his new hen has given us our first Egg !! - we fried it this morning and all dipped into the yolk - delicious.
we feel very pleased to have had such a positive outcome from a sad situation - and are thankful to our thoughtful and sensitive neighbours who have shown themselves to be lovely people definitely worth getting to know.
Shelli X